I'm feeling like my whole life is crashing in around me. My

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I'm feeling like my whole life is crashing in around me. My wife of almost 16 years is leaving me because she can't take on my issues that I have, both from the military and before. I have finally started to talk to someone because on the anniversary of me living and the other kid didn't that wall holding everything back gave out. Everything came out, and all of it at one time. Right after that is when I get told it's either I was moving out or she was. So now I get to sit here and stare at this wall with nothing on it in this apartment that I ended up getting. Knowing that I may not ever have the chance to get back what I'm losing in my life. Today has been a very hard one for me because I took a long hard look down the road that I must go down to get back to being mentally healthy, and it is scaring the hell out of me. The one person that I want to talk to about this is not there for me anymore. So I'm not only losing my wife, I am truly losing my one and only best friend that I could trust in this world, and it is eating me up inside.

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IGY6's picture
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May 4

@CKBlossom As of right now no. The only talking that she is willing to hear are the items that deal with the kids or getting the house fixed up. I just keep up with my appt's. and keep in contact with my small circle of people that I trust. Thank you for taking the time to read though.

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20 hours ago

I suppose then that when you are talking about the kids that you show her how much you are willing to take responsibility for. Be willing to step up and do above and beyond what she asks. Do sweet things like dropping off dinner when you drop off the kids. Be the man she wanted, maybe there is a small chance she is willing to reconsider things.

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IGY6's picture
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11 hours ago

@CKBlossom I'm hoping so. Right now I'm just trying to not overwhelm her.

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