Hi everyone, I'm Ozzy and new to the site. Been searching fo

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Hi everyone, I'm Ozzy and new to the site. Been searching for a site like this for a number of years and glad though to have finally found something in hopes that this will help me and my situation. I'm a single dad to three wonderful kids. This is where I stop because I can't hold my bearings any longer. Everyday is emotional and most that truly know me, know that prior to a few years ago I could still count on one hand the amount of times I've cried or someone's seen me cry since I was a very young child. Since I found this website 10hrs ago I've tried to type this same message a dozen times having to get up and walk away because I couldn't do it.

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airforce_sfs's picture
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Dec 7

Non-involved dads gets crucified for the path they chose.....but when you're a dad that's there rain or shine, any given moment they need me.....that's somehow become a bad thing and now my time with them has been threatened. I couldn't handle seeing them any less than what she's already been pulling over a period of time with what I spend with them......just not right at all.

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Dec 8

@airforce_sfs No it is not right you as there dad deserve to spend lots of time with them. I do agree that some men don't get the time they need with there kids and it's good to see a dad that does want the time and you keep pushing for it don't give up at all.

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airforce_sfs's picture
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Dec 8

Thank you so much, I appreciate it. I look around and hurt for others after reading what people go through on literally a minute to minute basis then look at myself and feel extremely fortunate. But at the same time some of us that have kids are just so connected to them that pain can me every emotion including the physical hurt your heart feels like its taking. So at the end of the day I'm blessed to say it could be worse. Still, the hurt and constant thinking about them just has me looking at the screen right now with more and more of a blur because it does emotionally start on me.

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