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November 19th, 2020


Im pregnant with my second son, and the father is nvr around

Im pregnant with my second son, and the father is nvr around could careless. Atleast the first deadbeat pretended to care while I was pregnant helped clean and what not. I am totally and completely alone and idk how I'm going to do this.

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Nov 20

Do you have family who will step in and help?

Nov 22

Hi Becky, So so sorry that the father is not interested in the precious miracle of his child. It is hard and you need to grieve that. Once you do, look forward to the gift of another son in your life and the joy that he will bring to your heart. His father may come around at some point. Right now, you might want to just focus on YOU and raising your other son. If there are family and friends who can help you, please ask them to support you! If you need financial support, check out your local area's social services. They will also guide you on how to get child support from your baby's father as this is his responsibility as well. God will not leave you and He will open doors to strengthen you and guide you. If you are a person of faith, visit your local church and ask for support. There are also wonderful single parent support groups where you can make connections that will help you in this journey of single parenting. Believe in yourself, take one day at a time. You might also want to see a counselor on a weekly basis, your doctor can probably help you with resources. You will be in my prayers.

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