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Hi there, I'm pretty new to this but my counselor thinks thi

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Hi there, I'm pretty new to this but my counselor thinks this should help me in my healing process. I was sexually assaulted by an after school teacher last year for a year. His wife was a teacher of my favorite class and his kids are young dancers, and I'm a dancer as well. He did this to me for a year and I'm now dealing with coming forward about this. The case just hit the media so I'm dealing with the constant talking from students that don't even know it's me. It's difficult to not feel guilty for coming forward because of his young kids and his wife. They don't deserve the pain that they were given, I just sometimes wish I never came forward so that I could just live a normal life, even though the attacks would still be happening. I go to the school that he sexually assaulted me in every single day, and it's extremely difficult. I just hope that one day this will pass, but it doesn't seem like it will. I'm only a sophomore, and I'm a lesbian on top of that. I feel extremely violated and I can't seem to trust any of my male teachers, I shouldn't be dealing with this, I'm only 16! I can only hope that everything will get better like everyone says it will, but I'm so tired of waiting. I just don't know what to do anymore.

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Feb 12

You deserve to heal and you deserve to have your voice heard!

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Feb 13

You’re right. You shouldn’t have to be dealing with this :’( and I’m so sorry that you are. I’m glad you are reaching out and that you are receiving counseling. That’s great! :) I also commend you!! for speaking out. It was a very brave thing to do. You may have saved someone else the same heartache. Big hug! It must be very difficult to be in the same surroundings every day and to feel like you can’t trust any male teachers. :( I hope in time you will be able to trust again. You are not alone. I will be praying for you. My heart and my prayers go out to you. Hang in there!!

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