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November 19th, 2020


I really want to send a message to my ex abuser to hold him


I really want to send a message to my ex abuser to hold him accountable for his actions. It's been two and a half years since it happened though. And I've tried before but he just told me that I didn't deserve his respect. I dont know what to do, I dont even know what i want to come out of it I think I just want to feel something again. Because I never held him accountable for what he did to me, and neither did the law.

Llg176's picture
Aug 1

I completely understand wanting to send him a message and I am so sorry that the law did not hold him accountable. I would actually reccommend sending a message to him if it is consuming your mind. I have had other friends who have done the same and they found it gave them some closure, and made them feel like they stood up for themselves. The only thing I would ask you to ponder is whether he might start harassing you back with messages. Again, this can be managed by messaging through something that is easy to block him afterwards. Just something to consider. Sending virtual hugs!


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