Hi there. This is my first time posting in this group and I

Hi there. This is my first time posting in this group and I just really need to get this out. I was r*aped in 2009 by a colleague. It was after an office Christmas party, a bunch of us younger folks went to one of my co-workers homes and had an after party. We were all in our early 20s and so we all loved to hang out and drink together. I'd known these people for years and felt safe being there. I drank more than I should have and ended up needing to spend the night there as to not drive my car home drunk. I passed out in the guest room and I woke up suddenly, laying on my side, my red dress pulled up and my co-worker behind me r*ping me. I froze for a second, trying to get my bearings and then I pushed him off of me. He laid there and continued to pleasure himself until he finished. I was disgusted, I was embarrassed, I was shocked... I never said anything to anyone about it and sort of just mentally blocked it from my mind. I ended up leaving that job a short time later and I never saw him again. Well, today, 13 years later, I found out that this person has been hired at my new place of work to replace someone and I am going to have to directly work with him again. The thought of having to face him makes me sick. I don't know what to do, I don't know how to handle this. I'm not comfortable telling my boss. It has been so long and I obviously have no "proof" anymore. Has anyone on here experienced anything similar and can offer advice?

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andine's picture
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Jun 16

There are free hotline numbers listed on this site as: Resources. Local abuse crisis centers will also provide free of charge support. Please reach out for professional, trained advice. Incredibly sorry you are suffering with this.

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