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I feel so messed up. I've been seeing a sex addiction therap

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I feel so messed up. I've been seeing a sex addiction therapist who has helped me a lot. I have stopped talking and meeting up with all the guys except one man who I feel I have fallen in love with. He has fallen in love with me. I'm still married but plan on telling my husband at the end of decemeber I want out. I love my husband but it's not true love and I know I will live to resent him if I don't stay with this other man.
Last night I went out with this other man and got so trashed that I flirted with another man right in front of him. It was all for attention but my boyfriend was irate rightfully so.
I realize I can't handle my liquor so 2 drinks has to be my limit. My boyfriend forgave me but I feel so rotten. All of this makes me feel terrible. I don't want to hurt anyone.
I'm addicted to the attention. This sounds bad but I know I'm attractive and when I go out getting attention from men is pretty easy. Watching them check u out.
Is there anyone else who can relate to me? I feel so alone and so sad

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Dec 14

my ex- found another man who she left me for, thought it was total love, he ended up not being the knight in shining armor she hoped for, actually ended up in a very physically/emotionally abusive relationship after the divorce- the grass isn't greener on the other side as much as we like to think it is, that has been my experiences anyways- think back to when you got married to your husband did you tell him on the wedding day you don't think it will work out and your not in love with him? It's a hard question but something has caused the marriage to fall apart

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Dec 28

Hi Holly,
Hope you did the right thing. Your husband needed the truth from the word go, being open about how you feel isnt always a bad thing, all dependant on how you reveal the way you feeling inside, whether i be Sexually or emotionally. I lost everything due to my addiction, my ex and i are better friends than we were before because of the truth, and thats how i live my life now, open and transparent.

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