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Why is it so difficult to get a nice decent greeting out of

Why is it so difficult to get a nice decent greeting out of your best friend who you've known for over three and a half years and you see everyday and you're more than just friends I don't get a hug I don't get to kiss I don't get a hi honey how you doing how's your day he is so self-centered it's not even funny. I have brought this up numerous times to him and for a couple days he's okay and then he goes right back to his old ways I am so disgusted I have backed off if he wants to do anything it is his choice otherwise I have shut down my feelings it is totally up to him if he wants me in his life. I am tired of being second best and I'm not going to stand for it.

Jun 12

Angel270108, I completely understand your frustration. Some people are just more affectionate than others. Sometimes it has to do with upbringing. My husband and I have been married for almost 40 years and that has still not changed! The only place and I do mean the only place, he is comfortable even putting his arm around me is in the privacy of our bedroom. So, with that said, you need to decide what you are willing to "settle" for. I will be praying for you!

Jun 12

Thank you for understanding. I'm lost. I'm thinking bout stepping back but still being friends. I want someone on my side standing be side me. I don't even get a greeting because of his son. The way his son treats him he takes it out on everyone around him. It's sad to watch. His son is 27 hooked on heroin n everything else has severe mental disorders. He won't work or anything. I have called different places 4 his dad 2 c if the son can b committed but that's impossible. I told the dad it's called tough love n just move out of the house when u can. The dad is retiring in 2 yrs. What do u suggest.


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