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Tomorrow morning my husband is supposed to be leaving for go

ShayBuc's picture
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Tomorrow morning my husband is supposed to be leaving for good. I should be happy about this but I am sad, scared, and afraid that I am not strong enough to keep from giving him one more chance. Why couldn't he just stop lying to me? Why couldn't he just stop the porn? We have been together for 7 years - married for just 1 - and I told him that I am done with it all. I always knew he was a pathological liar and a porn addict but now I believe he is a narcissist too. I recognized the fact that he was trying to make me think that I was going crazy awhile back. I never knew there was a name for it - gaslighting! I finally feel validated. But I'm scared - what if I am wrong?

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ShayBuc's picture
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Aug 8

Thank you. It's been a pretty rough day. I keep questioning if I have done the right thing or not.

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Griz75's picture
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Aug 9

@ShayBuc hang in there. Work on things you can control. You can't control him.

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Aug 9

I feel viewing Porn should have been discussed if it was acceptable in the relationship. Let's say my partner loves porn. Loves loves loves it, and I say okay sure I don't see it as cheating watch to your hearts desire. But then we to get freaky in the bedroom he is a total flat-liner and wants to sleep... and this happens multiple times. It becomes a problem. Because I'm starting to feel left out on the intimacy porn provides to my partner and if he doesn't want to share his viewing pleasures with me, or put that energy to pleasure me.... that is an addiction. And it gets worse if my partner fails to acknowledge it is hurting my relationship with him. Boundaries are key, and I feel like he crossed yours.

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