This is going to be a long post, but bare with me. I met

This is going to be a long post, but bare with me.
I met my Boyfriend about 3 years ago and he was in the middle of a divorce. His divorce is a nonconsenting divorce (she does not want the divorce) so they have now been in the divorce process for 5 years. When I met him I fell in love immediately but I did have reservations about the fact that he was still married. I am a very tenacious person and as soon as I decided I wanted to be with him despite his divorce I never looked back.
We are coming up on our third anniversary and I am really starting to get angry at him for all of the things that I can't do because of his divorce. I can't buy a house with him, we can't get married or have kids (IVF issues there), We can't afford to do much else because in the past three years we have spent almost $100,000 in attorney fees. I don't want to blame him for this, but I have been feeling recently like my life would be so much easier without him. Has anyone ever gone through things similar and if so how did you get through it?

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Mar 13

Well one could call it your own choice, but love makes blind. How on earth can a divorce take this long? This has got to go quicker and cheaper. Check

As it says: In the past, both spouses had to agree to a divorce in some circumstances. This could delay a divorce or make it complicated. Some people still believe that this is the case. However, you can get a divorce without the consent of your spouse in every state. Contrary to the myth, one spouse's lack of consent does not normally delay or complicate a divorce.

Those attorney's are just scammers who are out for money, get all the info to get him divorces as quick as possible and as cheap as possible.

Mar 13

@nafta *to divorce*


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