So..even though I told her not to call yesterday, I didn't s

ForbiddenHeart's picture

So..even though I told her not to call yesterday, I didn't say she couldn't today..we spent 40 minutes on the phone while she was at comic con talking about our days and life and random crap, somehow even the fact that we both wished we were curled up in bed together at that moment. I know I should work harder on letting her go, walk away and do the whole distance thing..but we were both laughing and actually happy and it's apparently the same for both of us, despite her not seeing a future for us we're happiest together. I don't know if we're lying to ourselves, I know I can't always trust her of believe in what she promises, hell I know it'll probably end terribly for me but I don't see myself going anywhere or pushing her away..Now I'm going to sit here and listen to Matchbox 20 and not think for awhile.
Thanks for listening/reading had to get it out and I have no one and nowhere else to do it.

Perfect_stranger's picture
Nov 21, 2017

It is quite simple. I presume you are a guy and she is a lady. So man-to-man. Just decide what you want. If you need her, if you really need Her then go for her. Ladies can't stand before confident and aim oriented guys. Be a man in other words.

But if you don't really need her, if you are attracted with sex and nothing else, well, you decide, you are the man!

luna1994's picture
Nov 21, 2017

i agree with dimitry

rosemcg's picture
Nov 21, 2017

This is a sad story but so true. I can relate to and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and I struggle seeing a future together, and I think it'd be good to be apart sometimes to explore more options, sense we both are codependent. But like you, we are so happy togteher and we have an undeniable connection. It sucks wondering if that is enough for a good relationship. Love is so hard, especially when you know eventually you'll need to let them go.
Anyway, good luck and continue to find things you enjoy and that relax you, like good music! Feelings change with time.


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