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So me and my girlfriend well my fiancé has been together fo

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So me and my girlfriend well my fiancé has been together for a year now and ever since she moved in things has been going up and down. So apparently my fiancé has this thing where im suppose to pay her car insurance, her car payment and keep her car maintenance.. she doesn’t believe in 50/50 in a relationship... when i was working i was doing all the spending for going out to eat and having a good time but when it came to asking her what we gonna eat or what we doing today she always say she not spending money on food or she has bills to pay. Now lets talk about present!! February i received my taxes and my shoes ive been wearing is literally taring so i went out and bought me new shoes, filled her tank all the way up and the rest of the money i had i was buying us food out so now my taxes is gone.. and her car is acting up, her engine light is on and she needs 4 new tires. Well now im getting called a useless *** man, aint **** as man & a no good *** man because i got my $290 tax return money and didn’t put it on buying her all new tires. Can someone or anyone tell me what to do ?? I think im wrong but at the same time i think she’s using me to just save money and get further in life

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Mar 16

@des9999 because she’s pregnant with my daughter ( my first child)

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Mar 16

@NCMom now that we have a child on the way her mother is forcing us to get married... im not ready to get married yet because im not financial stable and the way she treats me... her mother saying we have to get married before the baby is born (july 2nd) and now she forcing married on me.. every time i said we not ready for married and i say no she gets upset... saying we not a family... we have to get married like I’ve seen ppl be boyfriend and girlfriend for 10 plus years with kids because they not ready for married... I just don’t wanna make a very bad decision!!

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Mar 16

@JoshClark96 I'm sorry. I just now read she is pregnant... That is a rough spot cause u seem like a nice guy. How did u get involved with this girl and her family? Do you have any family?
Do u go to church?
It's hard to make a lot of change in a relationship... I tend to think it's easiest to work on one (small) thing at a time...
Maybe you could get some counseling at church. No one should be forced of rushing to get married...as u said. Lots of people have children and are not married to each other.
Glad u are reaching out for help and support. We r here. We care. Most of us want to see u happier in a healthy relationship. IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT.

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