My ex has this emotional hold on me. I want to finally be ab

My ex has this emotional hold on me. I want to finally be able to let go of him. I need advice. I feel like the fire I have left inside me is dying ..

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[1305]
Feb 16

I just blocked his number yesterday (which took a lot). I just have to take him off my social media. Sometimes I would have a little hope in the back of my mind that I'll wake up to a text or I'll check my phone & see a text from him wanting to work on things. He called me one morning & told me about how his brothers gf was cheating on him so it made him look at me and not trust me. I tried to ask him how was it fair but he tried to find every way to justify his actions.

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[3210]
Feb 16

Can you think of anything you might have done to make him worry? I'm not saying you did anything wrong, but something that might have looked like you were guilty even if you weren't? Spent time around a long-time male friend, been friendly with a male co-worker? Alternately, did his parents break up because of infidelity? I'm not saying it's fair, but sometimes people do have weird reactions like that based on their pasts. I've had weird reactions based on my past that have contributed to my ending it with someone before.

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[1305]
Feb 16

I haven't done anything but yes his parents did break up due to infidelity. I understand about having past events effecting your relationships but I think he's not seeing moving forward means to not hold those things over my head or anyone elses for that matter. Don't worry I know you're not accusing me of anything. I appreciate the insight 1000%!!

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