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I'v been in a relationship for about 4 years now. The first

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I'v been in a relationship for about 4 years now. The first two years were flawless and lovely. Then i found out that my partner was abused sexually at the age of 11 to 13. Tried talking about it, then we somehow provoked the bad dreams and memories that had been hidden/ignored. Now my partner gets nightmares and is suicidal, is always sad and there's now sexual tension. I love my partner and i don't want to leave, at the same time i don't want to live like this. How do i help put back things to the way they were at first or atleast make the partner move on and forget about the dark past.

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Jun 13

@MrOblige How do i nulify anger though? like it's the only feeling left in me

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Jun 13

@norseduncan Comforting i guess

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Jun 13

@sonk if you want to leave, if you think that is best, then do so. anger wont help. if you want to stay and work through it, keep in mind you only control your half of that equation

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