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I need help!!! I've been married for 6 years, together fo

I need help!!!

I've been married for 6 years, together for 7. A little after our 1 year marriage anniversary, I found out my husband was cheating on me... I had a child. No job. Not help what so ever. So I tried to stay. When I finally got the balls to leave, I ended up pregnant again and stayed for the baby... the lies never stopped. The cheating never stopped. I had a miscarriage and suffered through it ALONE.. we finally decided to try to fix us, and within 7 years weve had 3 babies... but our good times dont last. I absolutely can not stand him... knowing what hes done to me disgusts me. And I cant make myself love him anymore.

But here's the worst part. I am falling in love with someone else. And they're in an even shittier marriage than I am in.

I feel like the worst person ever for falling in love with someone else. But I've finally gotten off of my depression medicine. I smile alot more. I've done so much in the past 3 months than I've ever done in 7 years. And I feel SO MUCH HAPPIER. I'm tired of feeling like I'm just as ****** as my husband but I cant shake these feelings. I need help.

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[2760]
May 15

I'm sorry for what you are going through (and have been) in your marriage. I have been in your shoes and I understand much of your story. Thank you for sharing what you have...it takes courage to reach out to others. I want to caution you, however, in pursuing this other relationship right now. The hurt you have endured makes you very vulnerable to "the grass is greener on the other side", and it sounds the same for the other person, whom you said is in an even worse marriage than yours. I encourage you to put the brakes on this relationship so you resolve issues in your marriage (one way or the other) without any distractions. And besides, you don't want a dark cloud of guilt hovering over this new relationship, which it will...and that will create problems which will end your honeymoon period quickly. I know this because it happened to me and it is very common. I pray you will receive wisdom and discernment in all areas of your life and strength and courage to do the right thing. Love and hugs to you!!!

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May 15

I would agree with Piecebypeace. I understand that you are already involved but it doesn't solve your marriage. It just complicates it. You want to be happier, right? Listen to us and stop seeing him. Yall need to figure out your marriages first...

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May 15

I am sorry you are going though this. If you are going to end your current marriage, be very careful about jumping into a new relationship.

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