NEW LIFE HACK IS UP!
NEW LIFE HACK IS UP!
NEW LIFE HACK IS UP!
NEW LIFE HACK IS UP!
https://www.supportgroups.com/blog/what-2020-has-taught-us-thus-far

ARE YOU FOLLOWING US ON IG, YOU SHOULD!!!
instagram.com/supportgroupsforeveryone

I have a "female friend". We actually started out as lovers

[355]

I have a "female friend". We actually started out as lovers and for whatever reason she freaked out and put me in the "friend zone". I agreed to it. But I still have feelings for her. She told me while she was a little tipsy that she had been sexually abused as a kid. She said that she wants SEX and really wants it. Once told me via text "I can't find any men who wants to have sex with me". I am like, standing right here. But, as far as me - no go. She will NOT budge. I think she goes out and screws men and wants me around only because she is lonely. Treating me like a "bestie". I am not sure if I want to continue with her or not. This past weekend I went out with another woman just dancing. I told my "friend" about it and she flipped out totally, like a super jealous rage. I had to really talk her down and remind her that I 'cared" about her. But I almost feel like she is more of impediment for me than a "friend". I too want someone to love and yes, sleep with. I am soooo very confused with this woman. She invited me over for Thanksgiving but I am not sure if I really want to go. I really suspect she spent the night with someone last night. Of course I can't prove it. Should I just let her go and move one myself. After being "lovers", it's almost impossible to be friends really. Good articles all over the internet on this subject. Opinions?

show more ⇓
Comment
 2
[355]
Nov 26

Yep, I have heard the phrase. Can't have your cake and eat it too. Funny, the woman tells me she "loves" me then says "we're only friends". BTW, we're both in our 50's. Not kids.

Reply
[355]
Nov 26

Fantastic. Yea, this same woman whom I spoke about sent me a very nasty text. I had texted her late last night because I needed to talk about another issue not involving her. She never replied. She said she was asleep, I almost don't believe it, Well, I was going to be with her on Thanksgiving as she is alone as well as I. She canceled it. She said didn't want to talk to me. FYI, she has MS so that effects a lot of her emotional balance. But she said "I had a Sh%%ty year and i don't want you over". Well I've been is lousy mood all day due an event that took place late last evening (not gonna go in to a long story). Pissed me off. In her text she told me I don't want to talk to you. So I angrily fired off a text saying "fine, I won't talk to you at all. YOU call me if YOU want". I said no problem about Thanksgiving, I would invite someone else over (a female I know!). That'll rub her the wrong way. Anyways, she ruined my really crappy day and ruined my holiday now.

Reply

Login or Register

You are visiting Support Groups as an anonymous user.

Please consider joining our community and gain access to additional features by

registering or logging into your account