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I am.new to this group. I needed an outlet aside from journa

I am.new to this group. I needed an outlet aside from journaling so much. I am on the other group for loneliness as well.
I am struggling in my 2 year relationship. This is the first one I have had since being divorced. I feel so alone. He loves to work and will do everything for a friend or his daughter but does not give me the time I ask for. I struggle cause he is a good man and this is a crappy situation. He doesnt like confrontation so arguing with him is useless. Friends are few and I have placed all of my worry into Gods hands asking for the path I should be on. Is it wrong to want to feel important or feel like you are valued. Funny thing is , I am an independent woman , I do for myself. All I ask is for time. It used to be ok at first but when I gained weight from 2 knee injuries he just seems to have lost interest. Sorry I am venting cause that is all I have left to do.

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Oct 13

Thank you all for your responses. It helps to see different perspectives. I really cant say this is a relationship . I feel it is so one sided and that I am getting the short end of the stick. I need to seek out counseling cause the anxiety attacks are crippling. I am not afraid of being alone. I just feel so lonely. I opened my heart up for the first time since my divorce and this is what i am given. After 2 years he says he has his own struggles where he needs time alone but then says he needs time with me. He has not given me time in 2 years. He rather work. He puts everyone before me and expects me to be ok with it. I dont ask for anything from him except time and companionship. So the anxiety comes with the thought of loss again and a why me. I am trying so hard to work on myself and my confidence. I have given him the ok to leave or move out and he does not answer me. But he is never home. Trying to just get through this and handle these anxiety attacks better

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Oct 13

@Libragirl68 This sounds serious. Truly: if you can afford it, would be great if you could see a decent, and I mean decent counselor. If you can't afford a counselor or you are not interested in this what do you think you might immediately try? Peace

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Oct 13

@Libragirl68 This sounds serious. Truly: if you can afford it, would be great if you could see a decent, and I mean decent counselor. If you can't afford a counselor or you are not interested in this what do you think you might immediately try? Peace

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