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I am struggling to cope with my heartbreak. I was with my b

I am struggling to cope with my heartbreak. I was with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I was head over heals ready to build a life with him, hit the ground running. He always told me he wanted that too, however, over the course of the 3 years, he never took steps in that direction. We started arguing a lot and nothing was ever changing, and it got to the point there was not a day that went by that I was not hurting from something, every decision he maked was always pushing us farther apart. Finally a week ago I said I was done, I can't do it anymore. I need to time heal and get myself back together so I can continue moving forward with my future. I have not heard a single word from him so maybe it was right for us both, but I am extremely hurt and heart broken.

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Oct 17

@hsgramabrenda thank you for the recommendation, I will look into that. Time does heal all wounds and I know in time this wound will heal and help build a stronger foundation.

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Oct 20

you need to grieve and deal with what has happened. The fact that he has not reached out is good and bad. Good that this gives you time to reflect on who he really is and bad because you being to realise who he is. Take this time to do what you love and find yourself again and what you will and wont tolerate in a relationship. Maybe you also expecting an apology from your partner which may never happen and that is causing an expectation in your mind. Let go and move on.

Oct 21

I am so sorry that you have gone through this for so long. You sound very strong and committed. I find it very admirable that you have recognized what you want/need. You deserve to experience the best in life. I am here if you need anything and if I can support you in any way. Big hugs!


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