I am posting this in a group, I am not even a member of - be

MissHolley's picture
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I am posting this in a group, I am not even a member of - because I am seeking the opinion/thoughts of how you would interpret the following actions. I should add we have been together 9 years.

Earlier today, my man received a phone call. I was right in front of him. It was a woman who was following up with his interest in a male enhancement product he had been looking at earlier that morning on the internet.

When I got home later in the afternoon, he was on the iPad. He was looking at car engine videos on YouTube. Then he turned it on some music videos and went outside to make a phone call. I grabbed the iPad, checked his history, it had been deleted. This would probably be a good time to
tell you he is constantly watching porn. I went to open a new tab (sometimes he keeps other tabs open so he can refer to them). He had been watching a YouTube video on "how to get her to sleep with you."

Would/should this be cause for suspicion? I am interested in your thoughts. Thank you.

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Sdiamond1026's picture
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Jan 13

@MissHolley
My wife said I was paranoid and ridiculous too but I was right, she was cheating and had a 2 yr affair. I was stupid and didn’t go with my gut when it was telling me something was up. I was having dreams a lot that she was cheating. I had them so much that I would tell her every time I had one. She would say I don’t know why you are having these dreams but I promise nothing is going on. They are liars and will try and make an a$$ out of you.

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MissHolley's picture
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Jan 13

@Sdiamond1026 - thank you for sharing. I have had dreams he was cheating on me as well. And while I don't think he is cheating at this time - it could change at the drop of a dime. He likes to be appreciated and admired by females - so he puts himself in those type of positions all the time. I really just want a man that only has eyes for me - my man thinks I am unrealistic. Maybe it is unrealistic for HIM to only have eyes for me. I don't think it's unrealistic at all. It is how I feel about him

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Sdiamond1026's picture
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Jan 13

@MissHolley
No, you are not unrealistic, there are men that have eyes for one woman, I was one of them. It’s my wife that didn’t and maybe your husband. I believe there are certain people that aren’t capable of this and we probably found them unfortunately.

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