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I am not worthy of anyone. I try but i feel no one wants me.

I am not worthy of anyone. I try but i feel no one wants me.

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[1860]
Jun 11

I know what u mean. I'm tired of the dad giving in. I keep my thing's locked up when i go down 2 the house. The dad feels guilty because he wasn't there 4 him. I told his dad tough love nobody wants to be around either one of them because of that. My best friend the father got married 30 years ago for the sake of getting married because he didn't want to be alone and the person that he married latched on to him because he was their Meal ticket. The dad and I have separate housing quarters I live in an apartment he rents a house his son lives upstairs along with a girlfriend that he moved in this son has extremely mental problems extreme ADHD bipolar manic depressant. The father will not do the tough love thing because the sun will destroy everything and not think twice about it and you cannot commit him either.

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[1585]
Jun 12

I am so sorry you are facing this. It sounds like you have to be strong for so many people, it has to be so difficult. Have you ever given any thought to just taking a break from it all. Moving to your own place and distancing yourself? I know you want to help and you love him but I think all this stress could be really damaging to you. And the simple fact that they are making you feel that you are not enough is proof enough. You are enough, you are a wonderful person who has been sacrificing for others. Not that sacrificing is bad, but when in begins to take an emotional toll on you it is. Please know that you are an awesome person, that all you are doing and have done it more than most would. Prayers to you as you face this....

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[1860]
Jun 12

Im not like most women. I enjoy the outdoors as well as the inside of the house. I have my priorities my responsibilities n i know what i have 2 do. I work on cars have run a parts store can cook clean laundry now i work in a hardware store. I'm a tomboy with old fashioned values. When i go over to my bfs house i don't even get a greeting anymore. It's sad. I've backed off emotionally. I just want someone to notice me 4 me. I can cook clean n everything else but guys want Barbie. Im mo Barbie but i have a big heart. I have backed off from my bf of 3 1/2 yrs. I've shown him what im made of. Step up to the plate.

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