I am lost. I know I should leave and never have anymore cont

packfan's picture
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I am lost. I know I should leave and never have anymore contact with her. In her own words she is a 'liar', a 'thief' and a 'taker'. I have caught stealing my debit card amongst things, lying to me and taking advantage of me. She asked me again yesterday for money. I initially said no but eventually gave in, as I always do. She then promised to call me last night but she never did. I am defenseless when around her. I have pleaded with her to change but she never does, so I have to change. I love her very much but it is a terrible relationship for me. I have nove slept or eaten well in 2 months. She claims she loves me but I am starting to feel otherwise. I think part of my problem is having to admit that she fooled me and only took advantage of me these past 2 years. I don't want to admit that I was a total idiot and let someone use me. I keep trying to make excuses for her and her behavior. What am I if I let her continue treating me this way?

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CKBlossom's picture
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Feb 22

You are setting yourself up for failure hun and that isn't fair to you at all.

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LollyNews's picture
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Feb 22

You know what you have to do. Now just take the first step and do it.

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packfan's picture
(4470)
Feb 23

@LollyNews - Yes, I am fighting the urge to call/text her this morning. Even my therapist has said I must avoid all contact with her.

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