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Hi, I'm new to this forum not sure how it works yet so hopef

Hi, I'm new to this forum not sure how it works yet so hopefully I'm posting a message. I need relationship advice. My fiance and I are in complete disagreement about an email communication. I accidently saw an email chain that took place between my fiancé and some people he works with. They travel together a few times a year. Usually whenever he travels with people he is always go out for big lavish dinner (on the company of course) and drinks. Last trip it was a wine tasting restaurant and apparently my fiancé and the sole female liked the same wine and it became "their" wine. Really they called it "our wine." Long story short he had to leave the next trip early and emailed the group to advise. The female replied to all and said ok, and they all discussed how to move work around to accommodate. Realizing he appeared to be leaving the trip early she dropped everyone off the email that was on and emailed only my fiancé and said "Are you leaving early????? We are going to have time for wine right??????" So...….when I read this it appeared to me that my fiancé either started to cheat or was starting to get close but whatever he might have been what ever they have going on their travels did not work for me. He said I'm reading it wrong that it doesn't mean anything at all and I'm very confused. I'd love to hear what other people think about that communication.

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Jul 15

@Ellen4550 Thank you for taking the time to respond. I tried to talk with him thinking about what you said and it was like talking to Drywall. I just found what I think might be a great impact counselor.

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Jul 15

@laverite Thank you as well for responding. The wedding was tentatively set for January 2020. I was going to have just the two of us and not involve others just in case it blew apart. When I scheduled that it was prior to sliding down the slope and I agree with your thoughts and at this point cant see getting married anytime soon. I mentioned above that I found a counselor.

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Jul 15

@des9999 Thank you as well for responding, here is the thing that makes me 100% insane, I have sat down a million times and talked till I'm blue in the face. His answer is stock, always stock, for years which is "I was just being nice." "Your reading more into it than it really is." "I don't think that is what she meant." Things like that over and over link Houdini head games. For the wine thing he insisted it didn't mean anything, that he had not done anything inappropriately and eve that her email didn't seem weird to him! Really? If a male work colleague emailed me that Id be like excuse me? Why are you concerned with wine and me? That's the problem, he truly sets himself up, he has to, there is no way these women are just all coming to him all on their own. It is so unbelievably frustrating.

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