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Hi, I’m new here. I’ve been struggling with my relations

Hi, I’m new here. I’ve been struggling with my relationship since February. We have been together for a year now and I’m just not happy. Every time we speak on the phone, I end up getting mad and rushing off the phone abruptly because I try hiding my anger from him. I’ve started getting anxiety attacks recently while talking to him bc sometimes it like pulling teeth trying to have a conversation with him. He never compliments me or pushes me to better myself. I feel like I have lost who I truly am because of him. What should I do?? I tried asking to take a break to figure things out and he cried and couldn’t handle that. So I just feel like I’m stuck

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Jun 12

@icaretoo THANK YOU! I feel like that’s what I’ve been needing to hear. I do deserve someone to compliment me even on small thing and have him support me for wanting to better myself. Every time I tell him I’m trying to workout or whatever it is that I’m doing, he doesn’t seem to care that much. That’s just not okay to me. I do deserve someone that wants to see me all the time instead of just on the weekends. I should be sad when we’re apart and I’m not. We should be best friends and we’re not. All these things are just leading to me wanting to leave him. I know it’ll suck but I think that’s what’s best for me and my physical/mental health. Thank you for your support!!

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Jun 13

Keep talking and let me know when you take each of these steps toward your better physical and mental health. Try to do one thing each day, no matter how small, that will put you back on track! do you have a workout buddy? I have one and she's awesome. She's beast and I'm not, but she never throws that in my face. We don't always work out together, but we do check in with each other and encourage each other. We all need our girlfriends for support. Back to the relationship-HUGS....but there is someone out there just waiting to meet awesome you and show you the love you deserve and be your best friend!

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Jun 13

@icaretoo I will definitely keep you posted! Thank you for the encouragement, it means a lot!! But no, I don’t have a workout buddy but my sister motivates me a lot and she would help me stay on track with things. I totally agree about needing our girlfriends for support! I felt like I wasn’t allowed to have friends when I was with him or he always secretly got upset when I would have girls night and that’s not okay. I am finally hanging out with them tomorrow and I can’t wait! Thanks again for the support girl!!

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