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Hey everybody, hope you're having a good day! :) So I wante

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Hey everybody, hope you're having a good day! :)
So I wanted to ask a question. I'm friends with this guy, but there's about a 15 year difference between us and he has feelings for me. I mean I do too, but I'm too scared to tell him because I feel he'd turn me down because of the difference and IDK WHAT TO DO! xD I just need some advice, please, I want to know what to do. ;_;
Thanks for anyone's input! :D

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Nov 21

Hi. Yeah, that's a delicate situation where you have feelings for him but he might turn you down. So, I wonder if it would be helpful to take a step back for a minute, breathe and re-evaluate. Question: You say that he has feelings for you. What sort of feelings does he have for you? How do you know that he has those feelings?

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Nov 22

@L2015 Hey says that he likes me, ya know LIKES me. He told me he does. But still ;_; Idk it's giving me anxiety because I just want to say something but I don't want to ruin it. I really like him. Idk man. I'm torn.

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Nov 22

I understand that it's a difficult situation. It's better for him to know now, however, before you become more involved in your relationship. Assuming the relationship continues to grow, it will be much harder to tell him later on when your feelings will be much stronger for each other.
I encourage you to do that now and I also encourage you carry the belief that he will be okay with the age difference.

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