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It’s just so sad to love someone but you both can not agre

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It’s just so sad to love someone but you both can not agree on anything no more and you can no longer come to conclusions any more. You know you would rather stay together and continue fighting things through, you feel the other person wants to also keep the relationship but you both have no idea how to solve anything. I no longer know what to do. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years, we have lived together for 1 year ... how could this be!? I know what our problems are, we have slight difficulties on seeing what the problem is, I feel that it’s the fact that I want to buy things without consulting my boyfriend while on his side the problem is that I don’t stick to plans e.g I said I will buy a lounge this month, however, now I’ve seen a dining table that is absolutely beautiful and his all mad at me because I don’t want to stick to my plans. Reality is that yes I want that dining table, reality is I AM the one whoss paying every single cent on the lounge or dining table which ever goes ahead... reality is that I simply contacted my boyfriend showing him the dining table saying how I want that over the lounge BUT I never ordered it, I’m still happy to stick to getting a lounge as we discussed but his dramatised it or maybe I just .... I don’t know.... then on the 2nd of January I bought my first car ever, which I was supposed to buy that 6 years ago, I’m supposed to be off my L’s and P’s and be a full provisional driver license but ... anyway... sooo yeah I got myself a car to practise in which I’ve almost completed my hours as I’ve driven on and off in other cars e.g my parents, I want a car to get from A to B, I want to go grocery shopping or general shopping and be able to buy bigger items and put in car, I want the air conditioned comfort of a car in this hot heat!! I want the heater comfort for winter time ... I’m just sick of driving around on my scooter motorbike, I want a car to provide fun for the future with my children e.g take them shopping, take them to the pool, take them to the park, take them to see their Nanna and poppy, etc etc ... but whatever, my boyfriend had major issues with me buying a car... I just am soooo exhausted with our on going arguments. 2018 I was hoping for an amazing year with my boyfriend but it feels like 2016 when we first started dating and things were bad. I need help, I need advise... I need people’s

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Jan 13

@Bast8848 greatttt.....

Thankyou! I’m sure I’ll be posting more ...

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Jan 13

Sounds good. You can always direct messages those you need to.

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Jan 13

@Bast8848 thank you

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