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I came in contact with the man who raped me four years ago.

BlackLily's picture

I came in contact with the man who raped me four years ago. I'm still pretty shook up about it. I just need some support in this time. He knows where my grandparents live, this is where I'm residing until my boyfriend comes back from his CDL training. I'm afraid and the vibe he gave off felt like if I was alone with him that he'd rape me again and then kill me. The case wasn't sought through not only because district attorneys don't want to take on these cases but because we have a clown for a district attorney. I don't know what else to do, I feel so powerless. I need someone to tell me it's going to be okay. I need help in safety planning. Usually I can safety plan in these situations but I don't feel it's fair for me to place my grandparents on the line for me, especially since this is their house. Someone please help me, any advice would be greatly appreciated.

BlackLily's picture
Jun 20

@NCMom, It was scary but I've coped well with it. I'm doing better today than when I posted this update. I'm no longer afraid due to having a thorough safety plan and keeping it active. I've come to realize that I can't control if he comes on our property but I can control how I respond to it. I was with my grandma at the time but she waited out in the car, though was supportive when I told her about the situation. I hope that my standing firm stays continuous and will keep you updated with anything that happens or comes of it.


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