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Hi I'm new to this group and looking for a little insight on

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Hi I'm new to this group and looking for a little insight on what I'm going through with my boyfriend for over a year..He is a wonderful man that was abused as a child almost every day...He has been diagnosed with ptsd since i have been with him..He went to Florida for the winter. ..i visited while i was down there..came back cause of work he stayed a little over a month and since he has been back i have not seen him it's been 3 months he does say goods morning texting everyday and some days we text back and forth he still has my full suitcase he brought back so i wouldn't have to deal with it at the airport. ..He has not told me it is over and i don't want to push him into saying if it is or not..He is dealing with a lot right now trying to work to every day to stay a float..This is the first i have dealt with this..i love him and i don't want it to end it seems a pattern with him and relationships. ..He told me a few months in when he was not feeling this way that he felt different about me...what i am hoping to get some in site to is. ..is there hope...He does have the key to my place and knows when i work he could have brought it and left my key and walked away...but he hasnt...and he texts me little thing like ..I sent him my favorite picture of us and he responded with a smiley face...and other small things. ..that give me hope some say don't give up on him like everyone else has..give him his space which is so hard cause I miss him but he is so worth it to me...others say I am holding on to lost hope...In my heart I want to believe we are still a couple in till he says different. ..is that a wrong thing to do. ..It's hard to believe he would string me along if he didn't see hope for us...I read I'm not supposed to take any of this personal. .and I'm trying my best not to. ..can anyone help me with this. Please

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Jul 10

@Stationary_Transient thank you so much he does have sister that is affected by her childhood In the same home that he is very close to..He did go to counseling all last summer. ..classes..at the end is when they diagnosed him with ptsd. ..that seems to be the time that things started going down hill with us...He wasn't quite the same after.

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Jul 10

@NS100 thank you so much for your response..He has had a lot of stressful things happen in the last few months and I think it was to much..He is working every day now building a house and trying to stay a float. ..and I'm thinking that is all he has the energy for right now...not for sure but at least that's what I'm hoping. Your kind words help so much. .talking to someone that understands means the world to me...very helpful

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Jul 10

@murkey1 thank you so much for responding your insight has helped me understand much more...I am hoping for the best..I can't give up on this man he is such a good guy....and he gives me little sparks of hope. .that I cling to....which ever way it goes.. to me it was worth it.

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