I'm feeling alone. My fiancé today suggested adoption... ma

I'm feeling alone. My fiancé today suggested adoption... makes me feel like he doesn't want us. He says because of financial issues we're having. I understand the fears but **** something like "we can do this babe" would be nice to hear. We have a roof over our heads. He's 32 and I'm 23; we're not teenagers. I just don't understand why just because this is unplanned we have to "get rid of 'it'" as he suggested abortion early on but I didn't want to abort... Then he proceeds to say he's not going anywhere and that he loves me. But the whole dialogue is confusing as anything. I'm 17 weeks pregnant with a girl. It's not the worst thing... but it's heavy to me. This is my first post.

CKBlossom's picture
Feb 20

Hugs and welcome! So where does this leave you, if you want her and want to be a mother, can you do this on your own, would your family help?

Feb 21

I'm not sure. He says he's with me either way but if that's the case I don't understand why he would suggest such things. But he refuses to say he wants the baby. He said he'll want her when he sees her...does that make sense? My family is already helping tremendously, we are supposed to be moving in with my mom for the birth and to save some money to get a better apartment.

Mar 3

How did everything turn out for you?


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