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Hello. Im 4 months pregnant. Its my first pregnancy. Im mar

Hello. Im 4 months pregnant. Its my first pregnancy. Im married. Had a love marraige. I love my husband alot. I badly wanted this pregnancy. I feell very low sad lazy n depressed most of the time. My husband is a doctor and due to his busy routine he doesnt spend enough time with me. I too am a working lady. I get suicidal thoughts negative feelings. I feel scared what happening with me. I feel scared about my pregnancy and the outcome. I feel scared that my husband doesn't understand my problems. He is a doctor n this makes me more crazy he should understand more. At times i feel i can feel better by going out with him and having dinner. But this rarely happens due to his schedule. So im standing no where. Feeling alone and crazy. Whole day in a room. Please someone help me

Feb 12

Hi @nudrat first off, congratulations! Babies are a blessing and a true gift from God. Don't ever feel lazy, because you are bringing life into this world and it isn't easy. The last thing you need to feel is sadness and stress. I have doctors in my family and know the stress they deal with daily as well from work. Your husband loves you, and unfortunately that career is very time consuming. It doesn't mean he doesn't care. Maybe you can sit him down and explain? He is probably as nervous as you are..Take time pamper yourself, do what makes you feel good. You can try the nail salon or spa, eat something yummy, read a good book, go for a walk...any of those things just take care of yourself. I was worried with my first as well but during pregnancy I went through so many emotions but it gets better. Those negative feelings are temporary, and go away so don't listen to them. The day when u c your little one, these 9 months would be so worth it you'll want another baby. So I say take advantage of this time to enjoy your pregnancy and relax you deserve it!

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Feb 15

So sorry you are feeling low sometimes during such a special time...but please know that hormones and sustaining the life within you ARE exhausting...and effect everyone differently, so don't feel bad about how you are feeling. Do you have a local support system--friends? family? a church family? Working on top of it can be hectic...but perhaps just some distractions every now and again? Hang in there...and congratulations!

Mar 25

Hey lady.I can understand, in this condition.You want to some people having with you.Dear, I had also felt tired and dizzy.I am also alone at home, my husband is at on job.But with the passage of time, I will manage myself.I hope you can also do it normally.In the beginning, things are going to be tough, but later on, it going to be normal.Have a healthy and happy pregnancy.


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