I'm in a long distance relationship and just found out we ar

I'm in a long distance relationship and just found out we are pregnant last week. He doesn't seem excited at all. He just told me he would have to cancel his visit in February. He still says he's moving out in April, but by then he will have missed the whole first trimester. He gets up set when I say I'm loneky, but it's true I'm alone in this right now. Anytime I express any fears he just says everything will be fine and to not doubt him. I offered to move up to him right away but he said no. I'm just so scared and alone I don't know what to do. I feel bad and like I'm going crazy but all I want to do is cry. I'm just really scared and even if he doesn't want to admit it I'm all alone in this

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Jan 14

We have a very similar situation I also offered to move where my unborn child's father is and he said no. I'm about to have the baby in a week and four days and he still isn't here. He actually ha's not talked to me in the last 2 days because I expressed my frustration with the situation..I didn't even yell I was just trying to conversate. One thing I would take back is being more persistent on a plan. And have one in place. I went through all this alone and I'm probably going to be on my own for the rest of this child's life. I also have a five yr old I'm raising alone. I truly hope your situation changes and you don't end up where I am, because the crying is still happening and I can't even talk to him because he just shuts me out.

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