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December 3rd, 2020

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You know, I generally cope with typical relationship issues

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You know, I generally cope with typical relationship issues seeing as Ive been with my husband for so long.
In the past, Ive gone thru therapy, self help, books, blogs...etc
He is an extreme personality (pretty cut & dried, no grey area) and Ive learned how to handle most of his moods, inability to converse, reciprocate feelings, etc...
I guess covid has thrown us unexpectedly together for a LOT of time...its getting almost impossible to be ONLY around him. I know Im not an angel & try to be realistic...more patient, open, tolerant...but today I just feel done - unable to be with him. We are aging together which brings its own mountains of change, loss of dreams, disillussionments.
Im not prepared to leave him but Im losing hope that We can be a sort of healthy, evolving couple who are not totally bitter.
I have faith but its severely waning during this isolation!!
I know life is pretty challenging and we have experienced really bad things that just drained a lot of positive energy from each other...
I dont want to give up but feel so utterly alone. Dont know how to rally efforts all by myself?...

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Nov 29

@JayCoast it's wonderful replies like this that keep me going-- thank you again :)

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Nov 29

@kprincess613 thank you for reminding me I need to figure out a nrw therapist PLAN!

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Nov 29

@Bria869 these are good thoughts-- helping me "rethink" the way I want to proceed.
Totally agree that communication has got to be the first important link!!

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