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There is something I am struggling with, even though I got o

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There is something I am struggling with, even though I got over my ex wife's affair, I felt that I should be deservedly rewarded with some good breaks and I should get somethings my way. Such as not being overlooked to be a supervisor at work, getting my purple belt in Jiu Jitsu and getting back into the service. Well so far I did not get a higher grade position and I did not get promoted in Jiu Jitsu and I'm still fighting to get back into the Army. I was praying and asked God after all I went through shouldn't I get some break. Even though my friends and work colleagues are telling me I defeated my ex wife because my life got better and hers got worse and I am living better than she is than I won. It is not about that, to me I feel after overcoming, I felt I was entitled to those things. Is there anybody else that overcame their ex spouse's infidelity feel this way?

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Jan 15

@CKBlossom I believe God will make things right. He will take justice for against those that do wrong against us. My issue, I hope God gives me my vengeance now and all the things I was hoping for professional wise I get now too. Just like the healing process from an adulterous spouse, all those aforementioned takes work and I have to earn them. Don't get me wrong God blessed me with a lot,

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Jan 15

Okay, I hope you get what you want professionally and as far as vengeance, it is never as sweet as you think it might be. You are angry and that is valid, but no matter what you do to exact your revenge it won't make her cheating hurt any less.

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Jan 15

Maybe those things you want are not where your life is supposed to go. I believe everything happens for a reason, as hard as it is to swallow just because we want something and pray for it does not mean we will get it. I think back 25 years ago, my husband and I sold our first house which we had worked hard to remodel it was in a bad neighborhood we wanted our kids to grow up in a safe place. We found a beautiful old Victorian house that we wanted to fix up, it was a little more money then we could afford at the time but I wanted it so bad. I was heartbroken that we could not get it. I look back now and realize if we did we would have raised our children in the city not the country where we ended up. My kids would be different, they would not have met and married their spouses, my grandkids would be different, our life would have been different. Be patient, be kind, be loving, be happy, things will work out for you.

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