There are so many things I'm feeling right now one of them b

There are so many things I'm feeling right now one of them being my husband is a naraccist. I got married and I thought everything would be good I was very wrong. He's literally talked about me to other thinking that he could tear me down. Belittles me in public. None of this came till after my daughter was born and I was so wrong about him. Said and spat in my face I'm fat and ugly. That he didn't want the kids and I just. Idk. I can't change who he is and I can only think what is so wrong with me.

Foundlove's picture
Mar 3, 2021

I don’t think anything wrong with you... you were just fooled. Narcissist or not, he’s being abusive emotionally calling you names and belittling especially shaming in public. Yes, your right he won’t change. Do you feel like leaving him now at this time? I’m sorry your going through all this... it’s very rough to go through relationship like this!

kelly72's picture
Mar 4, 2021

Get out. It's totally unsafe. The damage they do, even if they never hit you, can linger for years. Don't waste your life on this loser. You're better. Get out, don't discuss it, just go quickly and quietly and don't EVER look back. Life is short. Live with peace, it's priceless. Best of luck to you. Hugs.


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