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The counselor brought up something quite interesting, today.

The counselor brought up something quite interesting, today. Those of you who were doggedly pursued or even stalked post break-up..could you almost FEEL every moment that you were about to be stalked? Did you see a pattern in the post-breakups/attempts to re-acquire? I remember one moment I was talking to a friend on the phone and mentioned that I could just feel that he was lurking. I looked out my window, at that very instant, and though he lives 40 minutes away, there his car was... driving slowly in front of my house. His pattern was to send angry texts a week post breakup, send blackmailing texts w pictures a couple of months later then send strictly loving texts following that, drive by my house, then pound on my door, then at final desperation.. show up at my work or school. I recently had to unearth the old blocked emails for court to truly see the pattern in full effect. I am grateful for the injunction, but I'm finding that that pattern is ingrained in me and every several weeks I am still "waiting for it" . Like my body automatically goes into fight or flight around those times. I know that in due time it will get better as long as he honors the order. But right now, I still do feel like he is around, and I am constantly in a protective stance.

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May 8

@zee4ward yes, love this.

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May 8

@wmw1981 thank you. I am quite proud of myself. Thank you so much for your kind words.

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May 14

Wow!!!! And does he clean the kitchen sink, too?!

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