so the father of my child actually took it as far as calling

so the father of my child actually took it as far as calling my jobs to try and get me fired . unbelievable. i''m supporting our child on my OWN without his help and he does this. i'm livid. i'm shocked. i'm hurt. i'm appalled. i'm disgusted. i've been moving on just fine because he had finally pushed me to the point that i had ENOUGH but i'm still upset about the fact that now im just another statistic. another broken family. i never wanted it to be like this.i feel bad for my daughters sake. like i failed. but i know he's the problem. i know i tried. i feel like all the effort i had put was such a waste. he doesn't care about anyone but himself. i want to move on and at the same time im so scared to find someone else, think that they are a good person, and then they end up having narcisistic qualities too. i have always ended up in relationships with such crappy people. i don't want to be fooled. i keep giving people the benefit of the doubt. i feel so gullible. i met someone at my job that i like that i feel is a truly good person and he's not even interested in pursuing any type of relationship other than friendship with me. i feel like i will never be happy...

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[510]
Sep 13

Riiight..

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[3665]
Sep 13

Sorry u go thru such a a hard time. As far as the guy at work. Most jobs, it is against policy to go out with someone u work with. It's for the best not to date people u work with because of how relationships go. It's a definate "job effector". Most people u meet in ur life are only meant to be there temporarily. Most, not meant to be there at all. Very seldom does a relationship work. U have to keep this in mind when walking into a new relationship. U cant expect anything except for it to end one day. Meaning ending in a break-up, or a divorce, or dying of old age. Either way, the relationship will end.

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[510]
Sep 20

I never worked with him. He's the father of my child. He knew the name of my jobs so he was able to get the number and call them.

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