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She is continuing to say she is leaving me. She was bragging

She is continuing to say she is leaving me. She was bragging last night on how all her so called friends say or are in disbelief why she is not dating and how they all say any guy would love to be with her. This is crazy.

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CandiCayne's picture
[145]
Feb 9

I hope you are keeping a journal! Document, in every demented detail, every little batsh!t crazy thing she does. This will greatly assist you in your custody battle, and in alimony & child support claims as well. You say you are not married, but are you in the eyes of the State? Also, be absolutely sure to keep your money separate! Get a safety deposit box and start squirrelling away everything valuable - jewelry, guns, important papers (trust me, she'll shred 'em just to p!ss you off), and as much cash as you possibly can...make small ATM withdrawals that won't raise a red flag, then put 90% in the box and live like a **** miser until you are free! Set up trust funds for your kids (even if it's just $10 a week) that nobody can touch until they are either enrolled in college full-time or 24 years old, because she will spend that child support on her d@mn self! Not taking the bait is hard, but remain strong! Love & hate are two sides of the same coin and equivalent in intensity; it is apathy and indifference that will break her. Keep acting stoic - and don't avoid her, sit right next to her like you don't even know she's there! Like a crazy wild cat with an unresponsive mouse, she will eventually tire of the game and move on...right now she's in control: you sleeping downstairs is her victory, so get butt-@ss nekkid and climb into YOUR bed! Use the toilet when she's in the shower, leave cupboard doors open, cap off the toothpaste, toilet seat up, every little annoying thing you can think of (but be sneaky too!). And when she yells at you, just yawn and keep reading the newspaper...but every once in a while, throw some side eye and be like "gurl, like I give a sh!t..." Make her feel invisible and soon enough she will become so.

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Daniel1018's picture
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Feb 10

I’m lovin this. Wow!

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Daniel1018's picture
[6665]
Feb 10

@CandiCayne Our money is separate and by the state we are not married. You are absolutely right about stoic state of mind. I have become that way. I am putting money back slowly. Thank you for your support.

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