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One thing that has always bothered me about my covert, narc,

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One thing that has always bothered me about my covert, narc, husband (soon to be legally separated) but I've never really talked to anyone about this. With any bf I ever had before, with any other man, even with my narc ex husband, I always knew I attracted them. Like ya know how a man will look when he's attracted to you? There would be a look in their eye that tells you they're into you and feeling passionate. Well at the beginning he acted attracted. But once we were a couple, he'd never even look at me with any attraction, even when I was young and beautiful and had no cellulite. I've always thought that to be really weird. But I think he does it on purpose, withholds that to be cruel, to hurt me, to be intentionally unkind, to make me doubt how attractive I was or feel less than. Has anyone else here experienced this?

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Dec 10

@Scat yes I think so too it took me 13 years to realise that he wanted me to feel bad.

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Dec 10

@DeborahHenry, that sucks. : ( Thankfully your self worth has nothing to do with his bee ess.

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Dec 11

Guys, he came in last night and started giving me that evil glare. Yanno the one they give to get a feel for how they can abuse you. Only this time it looked way more sinister, like never before. He did it three times in a row.

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