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Let me just rant about what evil narcs are capable of. You s

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Let me just rant about what evil narcs are capable of. You see, I gave myself completely to this man. Let him drive my cars. I paid his back child support. I paid off his entire Bank of America visa bill. When we married, he became a full blown drunk and stole his EDD check from our income, lying saying he never got it, but I found it in his car, where he hid it so he could use it to buy booze. As a result of his never bothering to look for a job after all of that but lying around in a drunken stupor, we lost the only house I was ever able to buy with my mother's inheritance money. He later stole the money I earned selling off my inherited family heirlooms so he could buy booz. Before all of that he also stole money out of my mother's house when she died and let everyone think it was me. But he was the only other person there so I know it was him. After he finally stopped drinking, he decided to cheat on me. But it wasn't enough for him to do it with women at work. He had the gall to do it with the next door neighbor when I was recovering from four cancer surgeries, even though I never withheld sex from him. When I figured out he was cheating he wouldn't leave the house but wanted me to be the one that had to go but wanted to keep the house even if I was homeless. After I finally talked him into selling our house (which he probably only wanted to do so he could use the equity to shack up with his side piece,) he wanted to take my share of the proceeds from the sale. He wouldn't even agree to give me back the money I invested that was a gift from my uncle. He didn't care that he agreed we'd homeschool and I'd stay at home those years, and that hindered my finding a job right away but never wanted to give me alimony or my own rights to the equity in our home. So I finally had to really ask myself if it is true that he just wanted me dead or maybe to cash in on my mother's trust property. If he's evil enough to do all the above listed, then why wouldn't he be capable of that too. I mean, how do I know he doesn't want to just snuff me out? Once he even alluded to the idea that a person would have an affair to use the affair partner to kill their spouse. So how do I know he isn't using her for that purpose? Her whole family seems dangerous. : (

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Haunted2's picture
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Oct 3

@Fiftyyoung
Broken Promises.

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miriah's picture
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Oct 3

Is there a way for you to leave him and be safe? You and your son? Safe financially, as well as physically, and emotionally. I am new here, and I do not know your situation, but I have found that sometimes gut feelings like what you described above can mean something.

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miriah's picture
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Oct 3

@Scat Didn't see that you had other children either. I'm sorry. You could give her the option to come to you anytime. Open arms. Open and perfect motherly love, anytime she feels she is ready. But you have to protect your other babies too. It is a hard decision. I do not envy you the making of it.

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