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Just verifying, but do these symptoms sound like a narc to y

Just verifying, but do these symptoms sound like a narc to you:
- hyper egotism. Self absorbed.
- NO empathy
- can not handle ANY form of correction or constructive criticism
- apologies a rarity
- makes all things my fault
- extremely worried about appearances. Designer clothes, perfectly pressed and groomed.
- perfectionist extreme.
- big on YouTube and social media, super attention seeking. Believes "Any attention is good attention."
- pseudo celebrity musician.
- often critical of me, w the occasional complenent. But complements were often double edged. Depending on whether HE had received his attention.
- jealous
- cruel silent treatments when we had the slightest of disagreements
(often times the silent treatments occured when I was ill or there was a dramatic situation I was dealing with.)
- violate me physically and sexually.
- controlling, constantly "fathering me". He was older.
- hyper clean freak
- always wanted to attain bigger and better so that he could gain attention.
- moody as all get out.
- every day a roller coaster.
- Criticized much of what I did. Often had a "better way" of doing everything.
- temper
- poor communicator. Particularly when it involved emotions.

Does this fit the bill for a narc?

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Feb 16

@BrokenAndSuffering your welcome ;)
Please do stay strong you can sweetie, I understand it's hard but your stopping someone wonderful for you being able to take his place if you even wonder if he could want you back, he's not worth having back, what he did to you is not love, i understand you hoping to get the final say, but from all I've read here giving any hint of contact attention to a narc puts them back in control and able to trap you, they know what to say in the right moments when you are most vulnerable, as ive been told here by kind beings who told me what to do, no contact is the only way, i made the mistake of going back to my narc, i was with my current bf at the time and my narc ex contacted me on video on my phone looking all miserable and pathetic and i fell for it, felt sorry for him,he gave me all these wonderful reasons we could work it out he will change etc, they can do this for a while then are back to treating you horribly, it's not worth it, I'm going to have to face how hard no contact will be, but this time erase him from my life like he never was, it hurts but it's only way, i can then heal and let someone truly wonderful who feels true unconditional love in my life, eventually, and i wish the same for you, love and hugs back :)

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@kelly72 yep...the only time I saw mine cry was when he thought he was going to lose me to another man. It was nothing but a ploy and game.


@ToughCookie99 Ha. Narc cake. Love it.


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