I screwed up royally yesterday with NC. My ex narc has been

I screwed up royally yesterday with NC. My ex narc has been love bombing the hell out of his new girlfriend on social media. I had him blocked on twitter – but I decided to make a tweet subliminally about him and unblock him. I know this is horrible, but people we both follow were retweeting and liking it and I wanted him to see it. I just wrote something along the lines of “people who flunked out of college are more excited for homecoming than the actual alumni” not exactly those words. I also tried to play it off by saying “this person is 29 years old” my ex narc is 28. This is something I know he is kind of sensitive about. (Or at least I think he is) He is one of those guys who never finished college but was in a fraternity and since that was the only importance he ever had in life any excuse to go back to campus he jumps at the opportunity.
So I posted that and after 2 hours and he never said anything – but then suddenly he posted his girlfriend on IG as his woman crush. No big deal – it was Wednesday lol and he had been love bombing her all day pretty much. I’m not sure if he saw my tweet or not before that. However I doubt it. I then went to his page and liked one of his retweets and I guess it alerted him. He then blocked me. I haven’t said or posted anything else.
How horribly did I screw up? I know that I probably gave him exactly the attention he wanted. He now knows for sure that I had been looking at his page which I’m sure is a huge ego boost. How can I get over this extreme hate for him? I know I’m trying to achieve an unachievable task – getting revenge on someone who doesn’t care. It’s just somedays I am just so angry with him and this situation. I wish I could let it go and just ignore him and move on :/ although in the moment it made me feel better like “haha! And I know he’s pissed people are agreeing.” But in the end who’s to say he even read the tweet? Who’s to say he just didn’t block me? Also in the end I again let him win 

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Oct 12

Please don't beat yourself up, we have all slipped. You just have to try and brush it off and move on.

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[2130]
Oct 12

@jadedtothesoul thank you I am trying. I just feel so stupid because it's like I had the power and gave it to him.

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[2130]
Oct 12

@gettingstronger123 that's true as well I feel as if I spend so much time trying to figure him out and I never will.

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