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I need some advise. I found out though social media that my

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I need some advise. I found out though social media that my 'Ex Narc" just got engaged to be married and she is pregnant. Although I call him my "Ex" we still text, hang out and are sexually involved. Little did I know he purposed to her, and then came to me and told me how much he loved me. Proclaiming his love for me, telling me that he did want to hurt anyone. I know his cycle, this has been going on for 8 years, my question is do I warn her? I don't think she will listen, as we all know how charming a narc is but this girl is very smart, teaches at a State University and is clueless...

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AngelaMay's picture
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Apr 16

@Halive Yes, I do have proof and if she were to look, all the evidence is on his phone and his credit card statement. He pays for the hotel room. He is also bi curious, which she has no idea of (yes I was there and witnessed this) he sends me messages related to his activity and also sends me pictures and videos. Because of who I am, he trust me with all of his intimate lifestyle. I attempt to offer good advise, still trying to "fix" him.

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AngelaMay's picture
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Apr 16

@kelly72 I know if I did he would do anything and everything he could to "punish" me. I just feel like is would have options to make a education wise decision. She is very early in her pregnancy, 8 weeks. I would feel awful if she were to loose her child, on the other hand, if she knew the truth, she would have time to terminate her pregnancy, if those were her belief's.....maybe you are right, maybe I just need to let it be. She has only known him for 6 months. just so sad that now a child will be involved.

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kelly72's picture
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Apr 16

This guy sounds dangerous and I'd advise cutting all ties with him. You cannot fix him. He takes your advice because of the perks that come with it. You have admitted to knowing he is the "punishing" type. You really need to be no contact with him. He sounds like a very childish, sexually deviant and immature user with no responsibilities or loyalties to anything. Don't let him tie up another moment of your time. Dissolve. Best wishes for you and your safety.

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