I just wonder if a lot of narcs have narc parents... my ex l

I just wonder if a lot of narcs have narc parents... my ex lives with his parents. Hes 32 and has never left home. I ask this because his mum is very controlling and he is very much a mummys boy. When he disrecarded me the last time his mum txt saying he will never get bk with you.... i know his mum is a narc she hates him having gfs. But could it be all because of her or is it possible shes a narc and he is also a narc?.

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[4345]
Aug 12

@Ducktape .. hmmmm not sure what counts as doing everything u need or just showing interest cause they liked u... my ex took me to.lovely places a lot. Bought me lovely flowers a lot. He knew i liked romance. He wud take me out then give me back massages most nights for the first few months. Over our relationship he bought me a love heart necklace and ive since found out he bought an ex the same one and told me at the time i had the key to his heart. His ex said he said the same to her... he had wrote me a song on his guitar but his ex said she got a song too.

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Aug 12

@Chocolatebuttons
Everyone romances or courts differently. I was a flower sender, red roses or red & white roses. I paid for trips and I bought a lot of dinners. I'm a man, that's what we do. I was also raised by a narc Mother who loved me conditionally. My adult life shows that I gave and gave and gave to get a reward. Perhaps that has been his experience too. Duplicating gifts is a little strange but if it worked on one...

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[4345]
Aug 13

@Ducktape yes that would makes sense. Maybe he tried to hard because he had to with his mother. I just wonder why if he really loved me hes moved on after only a few months. I guess maybe if his mother told him not to be with me anymore maybe his way of coping was to block me out and then try to.move on to someone new.

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