I have been with my narc husband for 10 years. I found out a

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I have been with my narc husband for 10 years. I found out a few days ago that he has been cheating on me with a 20 year old girl who is younger than his own daughter. I kicked him out, but he's yelling me it was my fault for not doing my "wifely " duties. I am having a hard time with this. I feel like my world has imploded and like I can't make it one more minute without him. How do I get through this??

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Nov 13

@GirlKitty you are so kind. All of your words have brought me comfort. It's so sad to me that we have all been brought here due to the same abuse. And WE are kind loving people. I hope you are right about him growing tired. I don't have the energy to do this for much longer. I'm just broken. But I have faith in what you are saying that things will get better. I will also tell everyone not to update me on what he's doing. I really don't want to know. Thank you again for just being there. It means so much to me.

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Nov 13

@Carini You are most likely correct. He will try and do that. I think he's already started.

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Nov 13

I feel for you. I know exactly what you are going through as I had panick attacks for weeks after he started another relationship and all the chaos. I had to go to the emergency and take medication to control them. You are not alone. And time will heal the wounds. It will be difficult, but you will get better. And one day you will see things as they are, not through the shadow of the man who emotionally abused you.

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