I have been through a tremendous amount of things in my life
I have been through a tremendous amount of things in my life. I have always managed through them with strength and integrity intact. I think I have discovered what has broken my heart about discovering my ex was a narcissist is that I thought he was my friend. In fact, I depended on him as my best friend. To slowly realize that he was using me as an object, lying to me, purposefully manipulating me and then slandering my reputation has been almost too much to bear. I honestly do not know if I will ever trust anyone again.
Yes, I have. Also putting salt in all corners of the house. Many people do this even when buying a new home...there is a lot of residual energy left in homes and also objects so keep that on mind when you buy antiques of love flea markets.....which I do. I have learned a lot because if you are "open" its drawn to you like a moth, just like empaths draw Narcs/socios more than the average person. We are so sensitive and have such huge amounts of positive energy, they see nothing but an all you can eat buffet. I believe you can sage it yourself, they do have stores that sell crystals and such things. You want to go through all the rooms in the house and you can even say things like "bringing in the light", "bless this room with love and light" etc..... I had one major relationship which consumed my life from 22 to 45, so when he left a lot of the dark went automatically and I was never so happy in my life! I do feel a complete cleansing is something I would like to do as well.
@ToughCookie99 I have heard you can buy smudging kits. But maybe I will start with salt. I need this black energy gone.
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