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i can't deal with my mom's emotional manipulation anymore. I

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i can't deal with my mom's emotional manipulation anymore. Im 24 and will be moving out off the home in 2 weeks. I recently found out my mom is a covert narc and sins she has been making my life a living hell in ways i never thougt she was capabel off. or rather I forgot. Cause this isn't the first time. Parts of my childhood that I closed out are now coming back up again. I'm scared and lonely. She chases away anyone who tries to help me.

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Apr 1

@kvolm2016 For a very long time i believed every body thought and felt like i did. This made me very naif en a big target for guilt tripping. Now i know what is going on, i find i have to move opposite of what my character wants. this makes me physical sick knowing i can't trust the narcissist and makes me very motivated to get out off the situation. But these traits also make that i can think about the abuse more deeply and try to feel how i would feel if i did those things. It makes it easier to not feel guilty or at least not for so long. i can pull my self out of the guilt tripping faster. also, feeling deeper also means feeling the anger deeper. Conclusion: i think my traits make me leave the situation faster than i would have otherwise. , but they also make me more at risk for emotional damage. The key is knowing what is going on.

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Apr 2

@INFP glad to hear that you have learned to recognize both the positives and the negatives that go along with your personality. Hoping you can lean into the positives to help keep yourself focused on moving ahead with your life!

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Apr 2

@INFP Definitely. I've traveled all over to places where I don't know anyone, and it was fun. People I knew were shocked and didn't understand why it wasn't scary to me. Well, you know why it wasn't. See, you're far more capable than you were lead to believe. Yeah, the narcs are up there with the worst of mankind in my eyes.

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