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I am so tired of the stalking. The other day I posted about

lostandfoundtn's picture
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I am so tired of the stalking. The other day I posted about the many possible coincidental run ins around town, but him driving through my neighborhood is not at all coincidence. I have caught him on camera once or more a week for months now. Always in his work truck and never a clear enough picture to prove anything. Today I had the curtains open and saw the truck coming in, instead of ducking I stood in the middle of the window and stared at him. I wanted him to know I saw him. Why is he doing this? It's been 8 months and he is getting married next month. He has only made one attempt to message me and has never showed up. What does he get out of the drive-bys? There isn't anyway to get the law involved at this point and he has never been violent so I don't think it's dangerous, but it is very unnerving. I don't know what to do. Should I try to confront him? That would break no contact but I don't know how much more I can take.

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Blueberries1234's picture
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Nov 9

yea... I would definitely just have a conversation, NOT avout the stalking. About his day, if you run into him be warm and fake it. Be open dont be mysterious. Maybe even tell him it has been hard but it's time you both let eachother move on and be happy. And now I better get going, I have to go read a book. Make yourself seem dull, acknowledge HIS emotions and mirror them but then say well I want the best for you and me, to move forward and be happy so I am going to try to respect and give you space so qe can both try to heal and move on. Maybe youve already done this, but this has worked for me.

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Nov 9

@lostandfoundtn The problem with threats and ultimatums is they don't work if the person doesn't believe you'll follow through. Perhaps you should contact his job. That would f him up... Doubt he would get fired.... Very hard to get fired from government jobs. He needs to know you are serious. I would not contact him any more. Take pictures with times and dates if possible.

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lostandfoundtn's picture
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Nov 9

@ILoveMe33 I have alot of pictures of the trucks at least most with an accurate time and date but they are on security cams and you can't see his face enough for i.d.

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