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How do you all not let a narcissist affect your health. It c

How do you all not let a narcissist affect your health. It can really get you down and affect you. Sometimes it makes people happy seeing you suffer and get destroyed! I find it hard to believe people want to destroy others until I experienced it. Personally I enjoy seeing people happy and healthy. Can't be said for everyone.

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8 hours ago

@kelly72 I couldn't agree more. We have more power than we think. It's just getting your head around it all. There is so much to take in and we of course want to know what to do. Life is too short that is very true. Yes! I noticed that too. You know sometimes so much is going on in life as you say we have to figure it all out. We do deserve better. One thing I noticed is when I went down the path of "I deserve better" it made me angry when I got mistreated and they feed off anger and I stayed in a mistreated situation for too too long. So perhaps feeling neutral in deserving better ( I am just thinking out loud). Age is just a number and we should embrace it. I am still figuring it out too but we will get there. It is about how you look at things. So true x

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8 hours ago

michelle Narcissists need to get on top of you emotionally to boost their self esteem. They have very low self esteem. They'll do anything they can to make themselves feel above you. They are also into hurt and rescue; my ex was. This is one of the communication techniques they use. Everything is always your fault. They want to keep you confused and controlled. My ex was making me sick physically and emotionally and I didn't even see it. I blamed myself and took all of the responsibility to help and fix our marriage. He just went on with his usual act.

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8 hours ago

@michelle7890 If I was going to stay with a narcissist, this is what I would do. First, i would make sure he is really a narcissist and not a sociopath. The traits overlap and it is easy to mistake one for the other. Second, I would learn everything I could about the disorder including the nine traits and four personality functions affected. Third, I do some reading (get a few books) on how to deal with a narcissist. Believe it or not, they can be manipulated. I found this out with my ex and have read that they can. It's a way of controlling them and getting at least some satisfaction. You have to realize though that every once in a while they'll do something you least expect because they can't be trusted. That's why it's in the Cluster B Anti Social Group of disorders.

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