Hey guys, Perhaps you can advise. I am expecting a visit fro

Hey guys, Perhaps you can advise. I am expecting a visit from my ex at some point, as he has his stuff in here, although I hope he will come when I am not home. At this point he gives me a silent treatment, but if he comes when I am home, I have no clue how he will behave. Will he be silent? rude and offended? Maybe sad, kind and sweet and so hurt? How the best to respond to any of this? I mean we have some stuff to share here so I would assume that we would talk at some point, although I already decided that I don't care about what he owe me, he can have it and I won't contact him first. Thanks

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Aug 13

@StillStandingMF @StillStandingMF Thanks for your words. Yes, I will try to focus on me now and live a normal life although I realize that this will take time. I know I have to ignore all he says about me and disregard the way some of his friends were already looking at me during the relationship, which I thought it was a bit strange and really I cannot even imagine what he was saying, And yes you are right, it should not matter what he is, what matter is that it was extremely toxic and I will try my best not think about it too much. I am very happy that I am out of it and I managed to break it. xxx

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@roberta19 Yes be proud of yourself for that as that took a lot of strength and courage!! You'll get through this but it will take time and you'll have good and bad days. There's a lot of good folks here that understand what you are going through so don't hesitate to reach out!!

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@StillStandingMF thanks a lot! :-) xxx

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