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Has anyone ever had this happen? Have you ever been invited

Has anyone ever had this happen? Have you ever been invited to a family birthday dinner and then are told they don't have enough food for you( I mean just you) and so you have to sit in the room while everyone( about 12 relatives) at the dinner table eats food and you have to listen to them rave about the food and have an entire party while you sit there being humiliated staring at the wall? But then are asked to carry the cake to the birthday boy? I just want to know if anyone thinks this is f'd up. Apparently this is a normal day to me.

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Sunshine897's picture
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Dec 12

Wow. That must have been so uncomfortable for you.

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kelly72's picture
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Dec 13

@MarinaRae OMG, that sounds exactly like my stepson's wife. She is such a hateful snob but will be sweet when she wants something. She reluctantly comes to events I have for family and will sometimes stand and face the other way so she doesn't have to look at any of us, no kidding...so stupid. She came to my husband's birthday party and never spoke to him, his stepmom or his stepsister. When I asked if she wanted cake and ice cream she kept walking through and said "No", not 'No thank you.' My husband put a big hug around her and his son to thank them for coming by and she turned and eyes got real big, face snubbed up and stared at the floor as though he was really invading her highness...she never raised her arm to hug him back. She is such a cancer to the whole group and will come by with an awful mood sometimes screaming and criticizing every thing my stepson does in front of everyone. I KNOW he is so embarrassed of her and makes excuses and when she says something she says it so hateful I can just feel piss daggers coming from her. Her verbal attacks on him are so awkward that some of the family laughs and pretends it's a cute lover's spat just to break the cold air. I've even seen my stepdaughter say to her brother "I'm so glad you married her because she's the only one that can keep you in line"...and I know she says it to appease the b*tch and cut the awk. My husband has even giggled to soothe it. I disagree with what they are doing. I know it hurts them and they have good intentions and think they're helping him but I think they make her worse. I know she'd do it anyway but I honestly feel that if everyone in the whole crowd would go silent and allow the awkwardness to stay there with just her mean voice screaming that eventually something would happen to create change even if it lead to their splitting. I think she keeps getting reinforcements from them by doing this.

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kelly72's picture
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Dec 13

I'm sorry you had to grow up with such a witch. I'll bet you wish you had the ruby slippers back then and could just get away from her. I'm glad you're NC with them. They are some major misfits.

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