Has anyone else had many instances of a narcissist making st

Has anyone else had many instances of a narcissist making statements of events or conversations that never happened? My ex narc was constantly telling me that I was harming his self esteem. On one occasion he told me that "I have on many occasions told you that I am sorry I am not good enough for you. That was your cue to say that I am wrong and we are just not compatible, but you just let me keep hating myself". This conversation never happened. My ex never said that he felt he was not good enough for me. If he had at the time I would have assured him that was incorrect. I feel that way now.....but at the time.....never. Just seems to be another bizarre aspect of narcissism to me. Making up their own version of events......

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Discernment's picture
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4 hours ago

@freeofcrazypants

Sorry to interrupt this thread...I tried to PM you Free...see how your doing with new career program?

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Discernment's picture
[5030]
4 hours ago

@freeofcrazypants

These Evil Things are the epitome of ENVY. Because of their poor financial decisions, we become the "good diggers".

No Wallet....check
No Finances....check
Sense of Entitlement. ...check
Mommy Syndrome.......check
Blame Shifting.....check
Abusive Evil Narcissist Thing.....check

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PinkPhoenix7's picture
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2 hours ago

Yes. My mother is a narc. And she would always talk about things that never happened. I used to think I was crazy. Now I see her for what she is - a pathological liar.

The last lie she told me before I cut off our relationship for the final time was that she had stage IV breast cancer. How did I find out she was lying. We actually went to her doctor apt. I wanted to get an understanding of her status, possible treatments, how to care for her, etc. The doctor started talking to her about minor things. I interrupted and said that I was very concerned about her cancer and wanted to discuss that. He was puzzled and said "Your mother doesn't have cancer".

Once again she was using a lie to reel me back into the psychotic relationship we'd always had. But that was the last straw. I ended the relationship. I finally realized there was no way to safely love her. She was always going to be damaging to me.

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