Has anyone else had many instances of a narcissist making st

Has anyone else had many instances of a narcissist making statements of events or conversations that never happened? My ex narc was constantly telling me that I was harming his self esteem. On one occasion he told me that "I have on many occasions told you that I am sorry I am not good enough for you. That was your cue to say that I am wrong and we are just not compatible, but you just let me keep hating myself". This conversation never happened. My ex never said that he felt he was not good enough for me. If he had at the time I would have assured him that was incorrect. I feel that way now.....but at the time.....never. Just seems to be another bizarre aspect of narcissism to me. Making up their own version of events......

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Discernment's picture
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Mar 24

@Zelda7231

In time you will forgive him. Remember, guilt and shame come from the father of all lies...Satan. God did not give you a Sprit of fear. Pray for them, but let the Holy Spirit do His job. Take care YOU. The Lord will deal with those two. I guarantee it. Consequences are painful, but we hopefully learn from them. Unfortunately, it seems a Narcissist chalks up consequences as a win. Pretty distorted if you as me.

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Apr 4

@countzero

The rest of your, "gender" does not reflect you as an individual. Please remember that..you are not part of the, "herd". Sorry about the late entry...my navigation skills are off...lol!

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countzero's picture
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Apr 4

@Discernment Oh you are so right. I'm not perfect but I find the behavior of so many men appalling. :-(

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